Are all blogs narcissistic?
As soon as I posted my last blog I got this question - "Are all blogs narcissistic?" I know this medium is supposed to be an outlet to express our views and opinions and anything and everything (as I am doing right now). But then, should it be considered as unsolicited advise? Should'nt the reader say - who are you to tell me about this topic? or maybe - why should I care about what you have to say?
Is it enough for us to say - I will just post and I dont care if somebody agrees with me or not. But then I am assuming that all of us post a blog only if we are an authority on a particular subject (and I am not on philosphical ramblings) or because we are seeking approval from the readers. By seeking approval are we being immodest or just trying to raise our own self-esteem?
As I have already mentioned that I am rambling, I will ramble along some more....
Is being raised as an Indian, with an associated baggage of culture and upbringing, force us to be modest? Is that why, when I reached the US, I was encouraged to speak up about myself. Is it true to say that in the western (or non-Indian) cultures you can be heard only by speaking out yourself. Expecting someone else to praise you or being modest is not going to help. So then, does it always mean that you have to have a certain amount of self-love - narcissism to appreciate yourself and talk about it?
Which brings me back to titular question - "Are all blogs narcissistic?" Who out there has an answer? Please speak up!
Is it enough for us to say - I will just post and I dont care if somebody agrees with me or not. But then I am assuming that all of us post a blog only if we are an authority on a particular subject (and I am not on philosphical ramblings) or because we are seeking approval from the readers. By seeking approval are we being immodest or just trying to raise our own self-esteem?
As I have already mentioned that I am rambling, I will ramble along some more....
Is being raised as an Indian, with an associated baggage of culture and upbringing, force us to be modest? Is that why, when I reached the US, I was encouraged to speak up about myself. Is it true to say that in the western (or non-Indian) cultures you can be heard only by speaking out yourself. Expecting someone else to praise you or being modest is not going to help. So then, does it always mean that you have to have a certain amount of self-love - narcissism to appreciate yourself and talk about it?
Which brings me back to titular question - "Are all blogs narcissistic?" Who out there has an answer? Please speak up!
